How it all began

Who knew that a simple “swipe right” could lead to such a great adventure…The universe first brought Ben and Kristen together when they matched on the popular dating app, Hinge in January of 2021. Kristen was instantly impressed by Ben’s humor and intelligence and it didn’t take long for the two to meet up at the infamous Cup of Joe in Cedar Falls for their first date! The two spent upwards of 5 hours chatting over coffee, and another two hours in the parking lot after the coffee shop closed for the night discussing medicine, family, hopes, and dreams. Anyone could tell that this was the beginning of something real.

From that first date, Ben and Kristen quickly got into the habit of making the 2 hour commute between Des Moines and Cedar Falls to see each other while Kristen finished up graduate school and Ben attended medical school. The two enjoyed crafting, cooking, visiting Reiman Gardens, and scoping out antique shops. It all became official when Ben uttered the word GIRLFRIEND (woohoo!) while they shared some pepper poppers at Oh My Grill on April 4th.

The couple’s relationship deepened and their love for each other grew each day as Ben finished his last semester of didactic courses and transitioned into medical rotations throughout the midwest. The two enjoyed trips to Utah, Mexico, and Europe, sharing in their joy of exploring the world. Ben and Kristen moved to Dubuque where they supported each other for 2 years while Kristen worked as an Occupational Therapist and Ben prepared for residency. Upon Ben’s match into residency, the two moved to a cute little home in Des Moines and planned for a fun getaway before their careers resumed.

On June 9th, 2024, Ben popped the question (and Kristen said YES!!) in the beautiful Secret Garden on Mackinac Island, surrounded by lilacs and old-timey horse-drawn carriages.

And the rest is history! Ben and Kristen are in planning mode and are so excited to share their love with family and friends on their big day!

K&B